I wasn't going to get into this until I read this:
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leave the drama to the women

What?! I believe you must have meant "leave the drama to the right-brain dominant!"

As far as the point of the whole mess, I think that what is socially acceptable changes from situation to situation and from era to era. What was acceptable to to the ancient Roman would be considered lewd by today's standards. The Puritans quite the opposite. I think if poop was running all over my floor, I'd have a few choice words too. If the guy next door was offended, he might have come over and told her, and helped her instead of reacting like he did when something was quite OBVIOUSLY wrong.