I'm a bit confused.

Joel, I understand what you are getting at about a civil society, but surely you realize that a state that tries to enforce a civil society by law is as dangerous as one that tries to enforce a free society by law, neither will be free or civil in the end.

It's dangerous to enforce what amounts to good manners by law, but it is also dangerous to enforce the right to bad manners by law.

The situation as described and those like it, was, is and will always be best left to peer pressure with in the community.